my parents divorced when I was young and I haven't had much contact with my father for a long time. I've sent him a few pictures over the years, but other than that not much else. So my boys have never met their grandpa. They tend to ask questions about him now and then but this week they have been asking questions daily.
Nicholas: "mommy what is your daddy's name"
Brock:" where does your daddy live"
Nicholas: " how old is your daddy"
etc...
I have answered those questions and thought nothing much of it until Saturday night came and I was out with Dallas running a few errands. First Ryszard called me, and then my mom a few minutes later letting me know that my Dad had passed away. I wasn't really too emotional about it. He has been in pain for some time now and kind of just stuck. The whole way home from the store I thought about him and was comforted knowing that he is now reunited with his parents, and no longer in hurting from pain.
I do find it very interesting to realize now that my boys were much more in tune with things than I was. I really feel that they in some way knew to ask those questions about my dad all week. I think in answering their questions I was able to prepare for the news. and not be too over come with emotion. Thank you boys for all your questions, for helping my prepare and be ready for the sad news. I love you Daddy.